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As always with these things, a second knit of the same pattern leads to to think on what you felt could be improved upon when knitting next time around.
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As always with these things, a second knit of the same pattern leads to to think on what you felt could be improved upon when knitting next time around.
It’s worth a blogpost all on its own, but I came home yesterday afternoon to the joyous sight of a big fat juicy slab of concrete.
As you all know, in August, I did this:
Now, it looks like this:
I know it sounds daft, but you have no clue just how happy getting that sorted makes me. The chap is coming early next week to erect the shed, and the way I feel about it, when I see it there in all its shed-y glory, I may very well spontaneously orgasm.
I was sent a few e-mails about my last post, (Thank you) suggesting that they mostly agree with my self-evaluation, however, I should find out my Myers-Briggs personality type, as it could give me a reason why I’m possibly maybe flipping to what is called the “Inferior function” in my personality in certain situations.
So, I did, and here are my results (There was an Enneagram Test in the same place as well):
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ISFP - “Artist”. Interested in the fine arts. Expression primarily through action or art form. The senses are keener than in other types. 8.8% of total population.
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http://similarminds.com/jung/isfp.html
Your main type is 9 |
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Main type
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Variant
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So, I shopped around for some more information:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers-Briggs_Type_Indicator
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ISFP
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enneagram_of_Personality
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nines_(Enneagram_of_Personality)
I must admit, the ISFP personality page from the test site seemed to have a great many negative words associated with it. I can accept their “pocket definition” easily enough, I’m so not comfy with the extended traits page at all. More thought required there! However, the Wikipedia page is a lot more expanded and helpful…
As to the Ennneagram Number? Reading the potted and then the expanded Wikipedia descriptors, I feel that is pretty bang on actually, including that my Vice type (”deadly sin”) is sloth… I can be very unmotivated/unmoving if there is nothing that *has* to be achieved… Oh, and is anyone that knows me at all surprised at my varient?
So, now I need to learn how this information will help me.
It’s been pointed out to me, that my communication style is somewhat argumentative. This goes against my previous belief about myself that I’m not that combative, rather placid and easygoing in my communications.
I tend to like to choose words with care, and am very aware of what power they have… I love e-mail for this very reaons, I can pick and chose the words that come out of my fingers, go back ans revise, shape and hone them, so that they deliver 100% of my intent correctly
I’ve never been good at “on-the-fly-demand-of-me” type conversation - as a listener, I’m generally nodding and making encoraging noises to people. When I have to speak about me an myself, I tend to leave gaps in my speech flow as I search for the correct words, that more talkative people want to fill with their own words.
So, to be labled as ”argumentative”? The whole concept was puzzling to me.
In the last few months, I’ve felt that I wasn’t receiving communication from the people I care about because of their styles conflicting with mine, or that they simply didn’t want to discuss with me the issues I needed information about… as we would start the conversation, then we’d seemingly tangent/get diverted, and the conversation would abruptly stop, usually with either silence and/or anger being directed at me by the other person.
However, why this behaviour from others is occuring was both (finally!) described and then very blatently demonstrated to me last night.
It really shocked me that I’ve got such a negative and combative trigger programmed in my communication style when I’m seeking understanding or clarifications on points… That I’m the one derailing the conversations, and either turning them into a pedantic argument about the meaning of a word, or leaping in with a defensive or corrective comment to the other person, usually before the sentence is completely out of their mouth.
I have to resolve this issue, it’s ruining my relationship with T. As yet, I’ve not a clue how to start though…